What would you do if you couldn't fail?

Growing up I spent the majority of my free time in the gym. I spent 4-5 days a week perfecting my gymnastic routines and learning the power of discipline. I believe this is one reason my current gym routine is such an important part of my life and for that I am thankful. Gymnastics also taught me I am an extremely cautious person and this was often to the detriment of my own development. Fear has always been something I have fought with so when I walked into our Lululemon store and the banner said, "What would you do if you couldn't fail?" it made me think. What are the times in my life I have been brave enough to fail? What are the times in my life I should have pushed harder?

Love is More Powerful Than Fear

Thinking back on my bravest moments I find they are not in my physical activities but my emotional ones. I found the courage to leave a serious relationship when things were comfortable but I wanted more. I also found the courage to love and trust again after being hurt so deeply. I found the courage to leave a job and my home to pursue a new career in a new city. I am proud that over the last few years I have come to realize that love is more powerful than fear.

Fear Will Not Control my Physical Destiny

Now it is time for me find the courage to continue to push my body. I tried skiing once and was terrified so this year I am going to start all over and try snowboarding. I will get lessons, learn the basics, and learn to enjoy falling and not fear speed. This summer I will try wake boarding. With David having a lake house this is something I want to be able to enjoy doing together. Fear will not control my physical destiny.

Be Kind and Gentle with Yourself

I will find the courage to not care what other people think. As a perfectionist I feel I should look and perform perfectly all the time. So when I fall skiing or am not immediately successful at a new skill I believe people are judging me. I worry about it at the gym, at work, even while walking the dog. I never compliment my body and find myself only sending negative messages. This year I will be kinder to myself and my body.